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I’ve been dating Adam for 2 . 5 years. I’m 33 and childless, and he’s 48, divorced, together with daddy of three children. We appear to keep getting the exact exact same fights about their needy ex-wife and also the negative effect she is wearing our relationship.
Despite my need to appear mature and chill, i’ve a distaste that is strong the ex-wife. She does not work, and she gathers impairment through the government and spousal support and son or daughter help from Adam. She attaches by herself to every condition which is why she will find an indicator, and it is on all sorts of medicine. The youngsters’ main residence has been her, and Adam gets the young ones a couple of days a week. The ex constantly delivers Adam texts concerning the young ones, from mundane details to complaints about their behavior. Very often she calls Adam hoping that he is able to “set them straight.” I’m certain that she’s the reason for all that chaos, considering that the young ones never walk out control with Adam, and I’ve only seen them be pleasant. Читать далее